Losing it

Well it finally happened today, I lost it. Not “Falling Down” losing it but I went off on quite a few people today. Let me explain.

Earlier in the week a Catholic Persona who I’ve followed for quite sometime on Facebook posted something that I found to be quite disturbing. He was passionate about having the sacraments back and finished his post with the hashtag BishopsBringBackOurSacraments. Well I found this to be quite selfish and started to explain that to him. He wasn’t having it. He was dead set that the saints wouldn’t have put up with this and neither should we. I thought that was a pretty bold statement for him to make considering most saints went through much worse and most, if not all, were obedient to the Church and what was asked of them.

Today I saw another “Catholic a Persona” saying the same thing and he had a petition and a website created for this purpose to petition the bishops to bring back the sacraments. That’s when I lost it and proceeded to unload on him with both barrels like Wyatt Earp did after his brother was killed. I let him and his followers have it, French words and all to get my point across (I know. Not my finest moment) until I finally decided to step away to try to cool off. In the end, I issued many an apology but still cited that I disagreed with his viewpoint on the issue.

Maybe saying that he is being disobedient to the Church was too strong but I don’t think so, some of them might feel that way but I don’t. Let me give an example.

As a parent, if my child who is living at home informed me that they were going to go to Cabo San Lucas for spring break, I would not allow them to go and I would explain how this virus is highly contagious and easily spread, especially when you are in big groups. My Child might not like my decision and may even hate me for making it but as a parent, it is my responsibility to keep them healthy and safe, and as a child living at home, they must obey the laws that we as parents have set forth. It is the same with our bishops; they are looking after our health and well being during these times. They don’t enjoy saying no but it is for the safety of the whole, not the few.

I still say that those who are pushing to have the sacraments back are being disobedient and selfish. What do they think would happen if the bishops caved in and said “Ok! We will give you what you want” and then a parishioner contracts the virus and dies from it. Now the family of the deceased parishioner wants to sue the Church because they knew about the dangers but proceeded to go against the orders set by the states. Do you think they’d care then? It’s not their deceased family member or them being sued.

For those of you who disagree with me and are persistent in asking for the sacraments to be put back, maybe you should take the examples that I gave to heart and pray on them. While your at it, pray for those who’ve died already because of the virus or for those dying from it now who are not allowed to have a family member be with them as they are passing. Pray for those family members who are so grief stricken because of it. Pray for the medical staff who are working diligently to save lives. Pray for the cleaning workers in the hospitals that work ceaselessly to keep their facilities clean. Pray for them and their families who worry that they might bring the virus home. Pray for our safety personnel; law enforce, fire departments, and paramedics who are also coming in contact with some of those who have the virus. And pray for this epidemic to come to an end sooner than later.

This is not a time for disobedience or selfishness but a time to think about our fellow man. Jesus commanded, “Love one another as I have loved you.” John 13:34

May God bless you all, and until next time, been camino.

2 thoughts on “Losing it

  1. Mary Adrienne April 3, 2020 / 6:56 am

    Thank you for your post. I appreciated your comments. My reaction to all the reactions of others to the church and its decisions around the virus and the Sacraments has been to turn it all off and not listen to any of the arguments and shouting. I’m not at all certain that this is a good or proper response or just a long-standing hostility-avoidance reaction on my part. I, too, miss the Sacraments and feel a certain caution about allowing the government to make decisions about how churches make their own decisions, but when our church leaders decide as a body how they choose to act..? well, I’m first likely to feel they probably know more than I do about the issues. Beyond that, though, this time in history feels like a time when God is putting us all in a sort of global timeout saying, ‘cut the snark, stop the yelling, cease the fighting and the brawling and the vicious assumptions about others’ motives. Hush. Quiet. Listen to me, Be with me. Love me. Then love all those that I love.’ And, it makes me sigh and choose to pray.

    Thank you again. You have a lovely open writing style that I look forward to enjoying in the future.

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    • johnprejean April 3, 2020 / 10:36 am

      Thank you for your kind words Mary. I just try to say it like it is. Sometimes that gets me in trouble though lol. I too pray that this will end soon, in the meantime, it makes me yearn more for the Eucharist when the time comes. God bless.

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